A 10-year-old girl is
dead and the 18-year-old driver who caused her death is in the burn unit at the
University of Alabama – Birmingham hospital with life-threatening
injuries. In all, eight people were sent
to the hospital. For two families, life
will never be the same.
I saw the aftermath of the wreck and I’ll have a hard time
forgetting the silver tarp draped over the mass of twisted metal that was once
a Toyota minivan, or the county coroner’s van arriving to remove the dead girl
from the wreckage. As I drove to work
the next morning, a driver, who had earlier been tail-gating me, blew past
me. Didn’t he know that child had died
the night before because of a speeding driver?
Watching him exceed the speed limit by a good 10 or 15 miles per hour, I
wondered why there is never a police officer around or any actions to correct
this behavior.
When a child is killed with a handgun, you will hear lots of
voices crying for more gun control. When
a child dies in a car accident, which occurs much more frequently, you won’t
hear those voices crying for more traffic laws or tighter traffic
enforcement. Similar to handguns, the
vehicles we drive can kill or maim, simply because of the people operating them.
And the key to reducing traffic deaths is not more laws or more cops, because there
can never be enough enforcement, it’s us policing ourselves.
Policing ourselves means making driving our primary focus
while we are driving. You can’t hold a
phone to your ear and focus on driving.
Texting, eating, and applying makeup are examples of activities that
take our focus away from driving. And we
need to focus because a split-second may be the difference between life and
death.
Policing ourselves means obeying the traffic laws. That
means driving the speed limit, not following too closely, maintaining your
lane, coming to a complete stop when making a right turn on red, and using turn
signals. Obeying these laws will go a long way towards keeping us safe.
A final way of policing ourselves is to be courteous
drivers. Don’t cut people off in
traffic. Allow people to merge. Drive
the speed limit, not 10 mph below it or above it. Drive in the right lane;
allow the faster traffic to use the left lane. Turn down the music. Remember
that you aren’t in your own little world; be aware of what’s going on around
you and how your actions may adversely affect others.
Too many senseless accidents happen every day that could
have been avoided. It only takes a second
for a bad decision while driving to cause an accident. And yes, I meant to say decision, a conscious
act that you made. Police yourself on
the roadways. The life you save by doing
so may be your own.